Things are being a bit too eventful in the Bostoniensis household.
But first: I'm ambulatory again. Starting about starting about two weeks ago my pain
finally started ebbing – a mere
five weeks after my epidural – and by about a week ago I was better enough to start doing some things for myself again and also wash my hair.
I'm not actually certain how much of this benefit is from the epidural; I'm also using compression garments again, and they worked previously to my getting any epidural.
[ETA: My epidural was on the 5th of August; the follow-up appointment was
supposed to be about 3 or 4 weeks later, but the earliest they could book it was September 18th. At the end of August, having not seen much of any improvement I emailed to ask whether I should be scheduled for a second epidural or wait to discuss the issue at my follow-up appointment; the staff replied since my follow-up was only in 2 weeks, I should wait for it and discuss it with the doctor.
A week later, I got a call that they had to cancel my follow-up appointment due to some issue the doctor was having and to call in to reschedule. The earliest they could get me in was October 25th.
Given how much trouble I had scheduling the epidural of Aug 5, while I was there I asked the doctor if I could just be put on the schedule for my next epidural sometime around November when it should be wearing off. He informed me that that was not possible because insurance no longer allows it: to establish medical necessity to justify the expense, we have to wait for the epidural to wear off. I pointed out that they could put me on the schedule and if I didn't need it I could cancel the appointment, but he was unwilling to play ball. So it looks like, thanks to insurance company policy, my life is going to consist of 2/3 being kinda able to walk and 1/3 not really being able to walk and either waiting to get the shot that will allow me to walk or waiting for the shot that will allow me to walk to finally kick in.]
[ETA2: oh, in other health related news, I had been prescribed HRT for menopause early in July. But I didn't want to do anything that might further disrupt my sleep, which was already made difficult by the amount of pain I was in. So I decided to wait on starting it until my pain levels were better under control. I finally started it on September 16. My PCP reasonably wanted me to get a (extremely overdue) mammogram to baseline me in case the hormones start giving me cancer. The earliest the facility at the hospital could book me was
next March. They used to have a clinic that did them in the same town that I now live in, but it closed at the end of 2023. Given they were booking into March, I made an appointment for May, figuring I would probably need a follow-up appointment around then and whatever COVID vaccination I get in March or April would have had a chance to kick in by then. I called the practice I used to get my mammograms through and they were able to offer me an appointment in November, and I was glad of it.
I was embarrassingly pleased that the online mammogram appointment request platform actually asked whether one has a mobility impairment. And when I was on the phone to schedule, the scheduler noticed that and discussed it with me, and booked me for a double length appointment to accommodate the difficulty this would add.
So far, it's been one week and I don't know that I've noticed any effects. On the other hand I slept a lot better last night and I was not woken by any hot flashes. Here's hoping. I was told to give it a month or two before expecting anything.]
I've been able to do some further unpacking, which is good, because, for one thing, I have been getting very stressed out about the fact that I don't have my stuff with me and haven't actually entirely moved in, and also, secondly, because the storage unit I am renting increased its price something like 80%. I called them up and got them to reduce the increase to something like 60% of what it was previously paying. I am obviously not thrilled by this. I'd hoped to have moved all of my books home by now.
We
were talking about having Mr Bostoniensis drive to my storage unit and put a bunch of boxes of books in his car and drive them here for me to shelve.
But that's not going to be happening in the short term, because yesterday his car abruptly made a horrible noise and died in traffic. There are a lot of things that could have made this worse: he wasn't far from home, he has AAA, he has a new favorite repair place walking distance from our new home, and I wasn't with him. Still this sucks. He has some important medical appointments coming up. We expect to be learning a lot about Uber in the near future. He has attempted to sign up for Zipcar, but for some reason they have decided that his Massachusetts driver's license was issued by Arizona, and that is why they can't validate it.
Speaking of insane validation problems with online services: Experian.
Re the previous, we both endeavored to put freezes on our credit reports. Mostly it went swimmingly, except for me and Experian. Experian wouldn't let me create an account until it could validate that I was me. Unfortunately, it couldn't do that for some reason. I think part of the problem was that the UI kept asking what my address was to verify my identity, and I couldn't figure out what address they had on record for me, and this was complicated by the fact I just moved, but that another part of the problem is clearly that Experian just sucks.
My attempts to create an account on the Experian website kept resulting in the error message that "We're sorry we can't validate your identity, please call customer service at this special number to do so." So I called in, to be greeted by a phone menu, that you can't get past until you can validate your identity by the same method as on the website. That didn't work either, and they won't let you talk to a customer service agent until you have done so.
I called every phone number I could find on the Experian website to try and reach a human being. I used all the tricks I knew to try to get through the phone tree to an agent, and that didn't work.
I called the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, and they were almost perfectly unhelpful.
I was figuring my next to last last option was to actually file a complaint with the CFPB against Experian to see if that could provoke them sharing a phone number with me that I could call to reach a human.
But then for some reason
last night on Mastodon Brian Krebs went on a tear about how much Experian"s security sucks.
Look, if you have a sign in the waiting room that says "ring bell for service" and I ring the bell for service and nobody ever shows up, I don't necessarily feel the need to only go through the front door, if you know what I mean. I may wander through the doors marked "Employees only beyond this point", calling out, "Yoo-hoo! Anybody here?"
So. One of Brian's linked articles mentioned how completely inadequate the identity vetting was on Experian's "Show me my credit report" account creation page. Now, I was having a different user experience than he described having in late 2023; notably, he was describing getting dumped there by annualcreditreport.com upon requesting a credit report, instead of the way I came in which was looking for a credit freeze. Since I suspected the reason I was having trouble authenticating was I didn't know what address they had me at, I figured that if I could
see my Experian credit report, it could make it a lot easier for me to authenticate for an Experian account. So I figured I would try the security hack he uncovered by requesting one's credit report.
I didn't get as far as attempting the hack: I had no problem authenticating via that route. I'm not sure what occasioned the difference of this time. Maybe they fixed the website between when I tried this last week and now? Maybe when you come in looking for a credit freeze you get a different UI/UX than when you come in looking for your credit report, even though you're signing up for the same thing? Maybe something about my multiple trials timed out?
But, for whatever reason, this time I was not asked for my address at all on signing up, so I didn't even have to guess. Like Brian Krebs described last November, they were willing to let me in on the basis of my phone number and a social security number.
Which, um.
Well.
I'm in anyways. And I've got the credit freeze on.
For all the good that will do me.I am amused to discover that my credit score on Experian is
way higher than on the other two bureaus. Also they have an employer of record, but it's a temp agency I haven't worked for for two decades. Literally an employer I had before Gmail existed.
Also while the other two bureaus only list my own personal credit cards, Experian knows that I am an authorized user of a card on one of Mr B's credit accounts. So for whomever needs to know this: apparently being the authorized user for somebody else's credit card will impact your credit rating only on Experian, not the other two bureaus.