After Action Report #12

16/01/2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

Here’s a cautionary tale from Jennie who went to the sex club with an open mind and ended up with bruises on…well you’ll have to listen to find out what went wrong.  We want to hear your story! The good, the bad, the ecstatic and the unpleasant.  Write about your weird time, and send it … Read More »

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I don’t know what to call this thing — no one likes “AQFARTIFROLOTIGTMIITC,” everyone likes “Masterdebater” but me, a lot of people liked “Gang Bang” but a few people really didn’t, “Group Grope” seems just as problematic as “Gang Bang,” etc. — but here it is! Here’s this week’s question from a reader this isn’t … Read More »

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Lovecast Extra

15/01/2026 12:00 pm
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Welcome to the first ever Sex and…Television! For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here’s a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show. Enjoy!

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Cissies

13/01/2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Patrick Kearney

I am a 45-year-old femme-presenting genderqueer AFAB person. When I have romantic relationships with cis het men, I’ve noticed two general types: They either enjoy sex and prioritize pleasure and making things fun for their partners and themselves, but make no special big deal about it, and we usually have frequent enough sex and that’s … Read More »

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Mouthwash?

13/01/2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours. In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating. A man asks for strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising … Read More »

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After Action Report #11

09/01/2026 12:00 pm
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Christine and her husband went to a kinky viking party (as one does,) and had a very HOT time. “How attached are you to these nipple hairs?” If you have an amazing or appalling story to share, DO NOT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. Write it up and send it in to [email protected] with the subject … Read More »

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