After Action Report #13

Jan. 23rd, 2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

Louis, a self proclaimed cuddle-slut, found exactly what he wanted at the Liquid Love event. Hear ALL about it. If you have a SENSUAL tale to tell, scribble it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love with the subject line: After Action Report. We’ll make you a star!

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Struggle Session is a bonus column where I respond to comments — just a few — from readers and listeners. I also share a letter that won’t be included in the column and invite my readers to give some advice. There were lots of moving comments about my response to PBO in this week’s Savage … Read More »

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The Parent Trap

Jan. 20th, 2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Patrick Kearney

I’m a gay man in my fifties, comfortable in my skin, but I suffered severe bullying throughout school, which was often abetted by teachers. A recent class reunion prompted me to write a tell-all letter to the current school director regarding that trauma. His gracious response was incredibly healing. My family has accepted me since I came … Read More »

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A Thong is Always a Thong

Jan. 20th, 2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

What is the polite way to ask someone to clean their teeth and deal with their neglected oral hygiene? A man’s girlfriend wants him to ignore her sexually, and focus exclusively on himself. But he wants to give her pleasure. How can they reconcile this? On the Magnum, have humans always been kinky? If the … Read More »

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After Action Report #12

Jan. 16th, 2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

Here’s a cautionary tale from Jennie who went to the sex club with an open mind and ended up with bruises on…well you’ll have to listen to find out what went wrong.  We want to hear your story! The good, the bad, the ecstatic and the unpleasant.  Write about your weird time, and send it … Read More »

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I don’t know what to call this thing — no one likes “AQFARTIFROLOTIGTMIITC,” everyone likes “Masterdebater” but me, a lot of people liked “Gang Bang” but a few people really didn’t, “Group Grope” seems just as problematic as “Gang Bang,” etc. — but here it is! Here’s this week’s question from a reader this isn’t … Read More »

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Lovecast Extra

Jan. 15th, 2026 12:00 pm
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Welcome to the first ever Sex and…Television! For those of you who are obsessed with the Canadian homo hockey romance Heated Rivalry, here’s a convo for you. Dan and sex therapist Claire Perelman dish, discuss and swoon over the super-horny show. Enjoy!

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Cissies

Jan. 13th, 2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Patrick Kearney

I am a 45-year-old femme-presenting genderqueer AFAB person. When I have romantic relationships with cis het men, I’ve noticed two general types: They either enjoy sex and prioritize pleasure and making things fun for their partners and themselves, but make no special big deal about it, and we usually have frequent enough sex and that’s … Read More »

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Mouthwash?

Jan. 13th, 2026 12:00 pm
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Posted by Nancy Hartunian

Happy New Year, and a very happy Feast of the Ass to you and yours. In honor of the holiday, our first caller asks if he should keep a cup of mouthwash handy for when he moves from ass-eating to pussy-eating. A man asks for strategies on how to talk his sister out of circumcising … Read More »

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